Let Me Finish - The necessary weekly column
Because OBVIOUSLY you misinterpreted it

Let’s just be mature for once and admit that maybe you overreacted. He didn’t call you fat to hurt you—he said it while laughing. That’s a bonding mechanism in his family. He was including you. Do you want to be part of his world or not? And about the cousin thing? He barely flirted. A light thigh graze, one whisper during Scattergories, and suddenly you’re accusing him of incest? Grow up. He’s affectionate. That’s how healers heal—with intimacy.