Weekly Columns


Finally—a relationship column written by someone who actually gets it. Every week, I offer clear-headed, emotionally sound guidance for those of us who refuse to be gaslit by “boundaries,” “therapy,” or “the police.” I don’t give opinions—I offer clarity. I help people understand what actually happened, not what they think happened after a group chat full of jealous friends poisoned the well.

Part 1

HE ONLY CALLED YOU FAT BECAUSE HE WAS WORRIED ABOUT YOUR HEART

  • You keep saying he “gaslights” you, but maybe you just don’t        like hearing the truth.

"Missus Mary Say," a beloved staple of our newsletter, features the insightful wisdom of Missus Mary Van Ross as she tackles the pressing dilemmas facing our readership. Missus Mary Van Ross' column provides practical solutions delivered with a unique and memorable voice.


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